![]() ![]() Had you asked me two years ago if I ever imagined S would cheat on me, no less on a site like Ashley Madison, the answer would have been a vehement no. When we were together, she wasn’t into oral stuff, she wasn’t into kinky stuff - but on the site, she checked all the boxes: “I like to give oral,” “I like to get oral.” My wife, to put it bluntly, was a cold fish in bed throughout our nearly two decades of marriage, so it was devastating to see her explicit fantasies laid out there so unabashedly. Her profile, “attached female seeking male,” read: “Not looking to blow up my life … I am looking to stretch my wings a bit and fly a bit farther.” Matthew was able to read his wife’s deleted Ashley Madison profile (adapted, above) after the site was hacked last week. She paid $20 to have each permanently deleted, but clearly, the company did no such thing. ![]() Not only was I reminded of the torture of discovering that my life partner, now 48, was cheating on a site that flat-out condoned extramarital affairs, but suddenly I could read the profiles my wife, who used the pseudonym Sophia, created during her two stints on Ashley Madison. The breach - which exposed credit card names associated with accounts, profiles, email addresses and more - brought all of that pain back like a sledgehammer. I call it D-Day, cuckold-speak for “Discovery Day.” ![]() I first learned that S was using Ashley Madison on Christmas Eve 2013. ![]() I always thought he was a decent guy, and here I see he spent $5,000 on the site.Īnd then there was my wife of 19 years. There was a business associate, a handful of family friends and even a dad of my kid’s schoolmate. I recognized six names right off the bat. I’m a computer guy, so it was easy to create database commands to say, “Show me everything in the ZIP code.” When I heard about the Ashley Madison security breach last week, the first thing I did was check out everyone who signed up in my neighborhood. Here, Matthew, who asked that his last name not be used in order to protect their two sons, tells The Post’s Dana Schuster his story. Last week, hackers exposed the site’s 32 million users. Over the course of five months from 2013 to 2014, his wife - we’ll call her “S” - cheated on him with countless men on the Ashley Madison website. Matthew is a successful, 48-year-old tech executive living outside of San Francisco. Moms use back-to-school as excuse to cheat on their husbands Want to sleep with a co-worker? Affair at Work website can make it happen Survey finds cheaters want COVID-19 vaccine so they can have 'responsible' affairsĪshley Madison says cyber affairs have surged under coronavirus quarantine These are the top 20 cities for cheating in the US: sex study ![]()
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